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You are probably reading the title of this blog and thinking what on hell is this woman talking about. Before you jump to conclusions, let me explain further. I am not telling you to be an evil person or be inconsiderate. What I am about to talk about here is, the way you treat yourself and your attitude towards others. Being the CEO of your life is important. You will find that only you can take full control of your life and what happens. It is not because you don’t have con

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about the topic I am going to discuss today. In a world of power couples, Instagram couples, YouTube couples and the media in general pushing images of what a relationship should look like. Sometimes you may wonder if we will ever have it all. I’m not saying it is impossible to meet Mr. right and hopefully, everything works out perfectly and you both live happily ever after. As women take up more responsibility, it is getting harder and harder

Consciousness, at its simplest, is “sentience or awareness of internal or external existence”. Despite centuries of analyses, definitions, explanations and debates by philosophers and scientists, consciousness remains puzzling and controversial being “at once the most familiar and most mysterious aspect of our lives”. Perhaps the only widely agreed notion about the topic is the intuition that it exists. I define self-consciousness as being aware of all your actions, thoughts

A lot of women are very enthusiastic about the motherhood journey. To them, the essence of their living and life makes no sense without kids of their own. While a lot of people jump into it very early in life, others think motherhood in later years is a much better option. No doubt, motherhood comes with a lot of fun as well as responsibilities, and you need to be physically, mentally, emotionally and financially ready. Society frowns at women having kids above 40 (due to the

Confidence is extremely important in our life journey. It could be a determining factor in whether you would succeed or not. Unfortunately, people think competence is all that matters, but the truth is that without confidence, competence can fail. Someone who isn’t competent can stand out because of their confidence. Courage is what makes you stick out your head in public and defend your competence although, this does not mean you have to support a false notion. Confidence dr

There comes a time in your life when you realize you have to cut ties with some people you once held dear to your heart. Usually, this happens after you realize they aren’t as great as you thought they were, after all, or they changed from who they were when you first met them. Admittedly, no individual is perfect, of course, everybody has good and bad qualities, but if they have to keep being in your life, they should be contributing positively and not negatively. No matter

I sat down to write this, then I forgot totally about what I wanted to write.   The title came up in my head when I started thinking about my whole life.  I was going through one of those moments when we start thinking that life is unfair and that everybody else has everything we want.    It is at times like this; you have to take a good look at yourself, flaws, acknowledge the mistakes you have made and the things you thought were right that turned out wrong. All these life

I am sure a lot of you are familiar with this one. The series of events that take place in your mind when he does not call and deep inside you know he stood you up. You met this guy, and perhaps you were not even interested to start. Anyway, you decided to go on a date with him. The date went well; you talked, you laughed, you smiled, perhaps you even kissed. In those moments, you thought, “well, this is it; this is the one.” Giiirrrrlllll, I know the feeling. Anyw

Smile, cause life is worth it… A smile can say a thousand things. If you trust the process permanent happiness is achievable. I was in Rio de Janeiro when I first read the book, Permanent Happiness by Dr. Iyabo Ojikutu. I had bought several copies of this book before even reading it, just because I liked the title. However, due to my busy schedule, I did not have the time to read, but every friend of mine in the meantime had received a copy. I arrived in Rio and was e